What is the Best Kind of Church to go to for a Christening?

Q: We are first-time parents and have not really been churchgoers. We would like to have our infant daughter christened and start her life on a good note. What is the best kind of church to go to for this special event? — C.D.

A: It is commendable for parents to want to establish their child’s life in the church. More critical than having a child christened is for parents to commit to raising their children according to the Word of God. The Bible says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6).

How can parents train their children if they don’t also train themselves in the truth of the Gospel and live by its provisions and instructions? Receive the Savior and He will equip you daily as you provide the spiritual home and foundation your child needs to grow physically, intellectually, and most important, spiritually. Pray for guidance in finding a church home where the Bible is preached and where Christ is exalted.

Children desperately need the guidance of parents. Set an example of consistency. For instance, if parents show a lack of wisdom in choosing right friends for themselves, it will be difficult to help children choose the right friends. If parents say one thing and do another, children will often “tune out.” Children can often spot hypocrisy immediately, and it can have devastating results as they grow. It is important for moms and dads to be firm and fair and above all, to discipline in a spirit of love. Be an example in word and deed and be consistent in your walk with Christ.

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(This column is based on the words and writings of the late Rev. Billy Graham.)

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